It typically involves a great deal of drunken analysis, the focus of which is to compile a list of non-threatening answers to the question—“Why didn’t he want me?

”—and I’ve had a lot of success with this approach for the past couple of years.

You’re the girl who people passing out samples in the mall ignore because your relaxed face may be slightly less than pleasant.

You’re blunt and you always get right to the point.

As one of our favorite intimidating women, Cristina Yang, once said, “If you want crappy things to stop happening to you, then stop accepting crap and demand more." You have an attitude that demands more of people and of life in general.

You are probably just as intimidated by life as others are by you, but that doesn’t stop you.

You’re the girl whose sarcasm comes off a little less sarcastic than you were hoping for.

You want (and plan) to take full advantage of everything life has to offer you.

And you won’t stop at anything to achieve what you want.

However, now that I’ve come to the repeated conclusion that intimidation played a role in my recent failed dating endeavors, I feel like maybe I should rethink my stance—especially because in all of those cases that explanation seemed completely likely and totally logical.

Therefore, I would like to figure out whether it is factually possible for a guy to reject a girl on the ground that she intimidated him. Everything about me matched up perfectly with what this guy was looking for.